Girlfriends are special people. Some of us are lucky enough to have several different groups of "girlfriends". I LOVE my girlfriends. What is it about girlfriends? There have been hundreds of books written about friendships. I don't assume to equal the prose written to capture the special bond between women.... but I live it. I belong to two different book clubs, I golf with a group of women and I have 3 sisters, 3 daughters, a daughter-in-law, and several sisters-in-law...I am part of many different groups of women. Each group is unique and each group is one of my favorites!
Women share things that need to be shared. We probably even share some things that don't need to be shared but that is for another post. I think this is how we "deal" with life, plus it is cheaper and more fun than therapy. We share, we talk, we process and we move on...or at least I do. Each group has a different dynamic.
In my book clubs we read assorted types of books and discuss them, like most book clubs. Sometimes the discussions take us places we did not expect to go. Yes, we have been known to stray off topic. A book can lead us to share personal experiences, opinions, emotions, and interpretations. I used to hate reading in school but I usually loved discussing the books in class....surprise! The reading was painful but the discussing was pleasure. Even when I don't like the book we read, I still like the discussion. I really like discussing the ones I actually enjoy reading.
Count yourself lucky if you have great girlfriends! Count yourself double lucky if you get to read interesting books with some of those girlfriends. If not, go join a book club.....you will meet some great people and even get to read some good books...and some bad books....and it will be cheaper and more fun than therapy!